A good friend went through this with her husband. It wasn’t until she went to a high school reunion that her old friends heard how bad it had gotten and all insisted he be in 24-hour care. Fortunately, he had long-term-care insurance.
People will tell you when you are being too hard on yourself. Try to listen to them, although it breaks your heart to “put someone in a home.” They love you and will not be “harsh” on your mother. It’s for her safety, and your sanity.
Love and blessings in this difficult time.
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Heartfelt appreciation for your sharing and blessings.