But feminism and the sexual revolution has altered that plain old scenario and the 1 - 4 women are throwing themselves at the 5 - 10 ranked men without any commitment to marriage, which leaves the 1 - 4 men without any options of marriage, family and procreation.
Some of those 1 - 4 men have given up trying. It doesn't help our society to ignore that it is going on. And it certainly doesn't help society as a whole to ignore the possibility that this involuntary celibacy has a profound effect on the young men out there and what it does to them mentally.
As I understand it, at the bar scene, roughly 80 percent of the women throw themselves at the top 20 percent of men. I don’t believe all young women are like that; I see plenty of young couples walking around holding hands. Plenty of people still get married, too, although whether those marriages are destined to last, I have no idea.
Some of the incels are role-playing. You find that a lot in anonymous forums.
Some of them are “priests”. They consider themselves hetero but they only have sex with men. They consider sex outside marriage with women to be immoral. I have a close friend who is gay and he had a boyfriend who was married. The married guy trashed women as “sluts and golddiggers”. Except for his wife and daughter of course. But her sisters were tramps.
What I hate is when the 8s and 9s smile at me because I know one wrong move and there’s a big old lawsuit coming my way.