Had to look that one up...
= = = =
Urban Dictionary: incel
aka “involuntarily celibate”, a person (usually male) who has a horrible personality and treats women like sexual objects and thinks his lack of a sex life comes from being “ugly” when its really just his blatant sexism and terrible attitude. incels have little to no self awareness; even when they see other “ugly” men with girlfriends, they ...
I’ve seen plenty of men who were downright homely, married to very attractive women. Now, if I were cynical, I would say they married for money, and maybe some of them did. But as a woman, I can tell you that we find men with a great sense of humor, or highly intelligent, or an obviously kind soul, to be very attractive, no matter what their looks are. Of course we’re attracted to successful men, but I don’t mean necessarily FINANCIALLY successful. A guy who’s successful at having a great personality, or a great thinker, etc., is an attractive kind of guy. A very wise senior girl in high school once told me, “My boyfriend is as homely as a mud fence, but I couldn’t care less; he’s a great guy, and that’s what counts.”