Too many evangelical churches are only “seeker-sensitive” and do not properly grow a baby Christian into a responsible adult with all the proper knowledge and understanding.
God is not there to be your pet or to be put into your god box that only a “nice” god could inhabit. He is not there to make your life easy and fun or rich and happy.
Only God, through His gift of grace, can validate your existence. This is absolute truth and there are many who will spend eternity with the crushing realization of what they missed in a mere moment in time.