[Ouderkirk]

Females naturally gravitate the “Troubled Bay Boy” who inevitably treats them like a doormat or a punching bag.

Then they’re dumbfounded why they are being F’d and chucked repeatedly. They seek out these men, who dare to take what they want with no remorse.

[fhayek]

I have been on both sides of this. In high school, I was the perfect gentleman (read:nerd). I never had a date. No exaggeration. None. I got to college, and I met a lifelong friend who demonstrated that being aggressive pays off. Now, I was no Casanova, but I have known some very exquisite, and special women. My point is that sexual aggressiveness pays off, until, maybe 40 years later, when the woman choses to remember the episode as being something akin to being shore leave for Blackbeard the Pirate.

[Architect of Avalon]

Please state why they do that.

[robowombat]

Interesting comment. Know of a woman who was really erotically attractive and smart. She loved the adrenalin rush of wild sex with, in her words “mean exciting men”. She kept a couple decent men on the string doling out the charm and sexual favors so she always had a fallback for emergencies. She treated these men like crap most of the time as sshe was going through the copulatory course with the current bad boy or thug. When she was a 30 something she started having coordination problems and it diagnosed as MS. All her Kim Kardasian wannabe female friends and all her exciting bad boys dropped her like a turd. The guy who stepped up wad one of the decenten she had loved to toy with. He had good insurance and married her. She asked why he rescued her and was told “I love you and it is the right thing to do. She was left literally speechless for the first time she could remember.