You’re not the only one who is confused.
Someday, I hope it’s sooner than later, we as a society are going to look back at these days and either laugh or cry our asses off that we let a bunch of mentally ill people completely redefine something as fundamental as what it means to be a man and a woman. The fact that we allowed this either out of erroneous belief that we are being polite, kind, and tolerant is the saddest aspect of this comical tragedy.