If one looks closely, one will see the container ship was fitted with one of those protrusions just under water from the bow of the ship. Do you have any idea what that would have done to the destroyer in a perpendicular collision?
My guess it it caused extensive damage below the waterline not seen in any of the footage shown, which only appears to show damage to the superstructure.
It is likely why they appear to have a lot of pumps going full bore, pumping water over the side.