Victimhood is the fall back position for everyone except while males.
Let any black person walk down the street in any "white" neighborhood and watch what happens - no one will give them a second look and most will go out of their way to be helpful, accommodating and overly nice(just to assure themselves that they're not "racist")
Now, let any white DARE to do the same thing in a black neighborhood - yeah, just see what happens . . .