These men were not talking about you in their earlier comments. It was their own understandings from their experiences or from what they witnessed.
You are better than this, Metmom. You're normally pretty cool.
I was referring to a person who posted a few times on FR about the Red Pill stuff and he took it to the extreme and what he described was emotionally and physically abusive to women.
Those were his words about falling asleep with a smile on her face.
The mods dealt with it. His comments were deleted and the account banned.