Women are certainly shredded for seeing men as a means to a comfortable life, just for their money and having the men wait on them hand and foot.
I’m not wrong with that observation.
I'm not sure what you are saying. A gold digger and her male ATM machine can have a good life if that is what they want. Men know this. The trick is to be rich enough and a good prenupt.
Who is shredding them for that? Not other women. Where are you seeing anyone on tv or media shredding women “for getting everything they deserve”?
If anything I see the opposite. Show me any shows on tv where the central themes are anything other than women good and smart and right/men are scum and stupid and wrong.
You have to go back to Leave it to beaver and Father Knows Best.