Right now I use a Ruger .380 because i can slip it in my front pants pocket. I’ve not shot off any of my vital parts yet...
I too conceal carry a .380, with the best ammo i can get.
Same here - also have a .357 and a classic (made in Springfield Armory in 1914) 1911 .45. Prefer to shoot the 1911 but the .357 will reach out a bit further if someone needs to be touched - can hit a mailbox at 100 yards with it a bit more often than with the .45.
Have two .380 pocket guns for convenient concealed carry - easy to carry and still enough oomph to be effective for defense situations.