“And the FJ group has no idea why we are mad.”
Yes, they do. It’s just an Alinsky tactic to try to marginalize you for objecting to their agenda.
“No one else complained about it.” (And they’ll say this to fifty different people in the hopes of preventing the opposition from organizing)
“Why would a reasonable person be upset about this?” (Pretending that it’s perfectly normal and you’re wrong for objecting to something that everyone else just blithely accepts.)
I won't assume to know their thought process on it, but they (FJ committee) are 70's college educated libs.