I found myself in the same position you described helping my mother before her death.
Real life situations never seem to be recognized by the people so willing to pass a law to “correct” a problem that doesn’t exist just to say they “did something”.
Anyone perv’ing in a bathroom, regardless whether it’s a male or female restroom is already violating existing statutes so there’s no reason to pass more restrictions that would apply to everyone just for the sake of appearances.
What’s next? Gun control because guns are sometimes used to commit illegal acts?
Yeah, people don’t seem to be able to see the forest through the trees here.
And let us please never speak of mother and death in the same anything.
That is something I don’t think I can face.