You mentioned an aspect I had not thought of; the sodomite misuse of a bodily orifice. The thought of which makes me question the sanity of those who practice it; Bibically one of the most heinous sins enumerated.
From a still different angle, I recall seeing a tag on the back of the sissybar on a Harley at a HOG rally years ago: “If you think sex is a pain in the ass, you’re doing it wrong.”
Use of said orifice in that fashion, is said by certain schools of psychiatry,to be the result of infantile “exploration”. When it persists as a choice into adulthood, the said adults are said to be in a state of infantilism. That is, childish acting.
When examining either male or female queers, and their screaming about minutiae of their minority and their concocted self absorbed “rights”, it is hard not to think of all of them (ALL of them) as children. To which they would demand of us-— “so what, what’s wrong with that?” Answer- everything, and is so when heteros act like children. Bad outcomes for the rest of society either way.