It’s dude. And I was simply annoyed by all the angst and whinning added to their characterizations. Chris and his wife are made of far sterner stuff than portrayed.
Oh OK sorry about that, I know exactly what you mean, my wife was saying that as well, she was wondering if they were constantly fighting like that in the movie, I did too it was a bit much. “Oh where is my husband, he’s a different man, he’s here but not mentally” and then the constant crying