Your gf.
She is not in denial. She has been trying to do the right thing.
Have had 2 deaths in family in 2 years leading to many $$$ going to those services and transportation of deceased out of NC to 2 other states for burial. Do you have any idea how much that crap costs?
She busts Her ass everyday at work.
Her Mother is 90 and has had to move in with us for medical/safety reasons. I have to keep an eye on Her all the time. OCD/Alzhimers/balance problems and denial just to list a few things.
I am disabled and filing for SSDI for over a year. That is being denied because I’m the wrong race. I can’t find/keep a job due to the problem with my feet. Max time I can be on them is at most a couple of hours.
Not to mention vehicle breakdowns costing several thousand $$$.
And rent/bills/food/meds/gas...
You ever hear the phrase:
It’s hard to drain the swamp when you are up to your ass in aligators?
We live it 24/7/365
I AM NOT defending Her just because She is My GF.
THE SYSTEM SUCKS!!!! One tries to work within it and one get F’ED!