“A soul exists it does not develop.”
A soul exists, and this allows it to grow closer to God as it develops. Remember what Jesus said when He explained the parable of the “Tares in the Wheat” in Matthew 13. My paraphrase... Mankind are the good seeds planted in the field to grow. It is the purpose of our life here on earth... i.e. a forum for our souls to grow closer to God.
Right. It's not the soul that grows. It's the man who grows into his soul.
You may mean well, but your “theology,” if adopted by you and others, is a ticket straight to hell, a very real place, created for the punishment of satan and his minions, and the assigned “home” of those who die in their sin. ONLY the Blood of Jesus is powerful enough to overcome the “wages of sin,” and only your repentence from your sin (”For all have sinned and come short of the Glory of God...”) and acceptance of the free gift of Salvation will get you into Heaven when you leave this vale of tears. The ONLY exceptions are either one who keeps the Mosaic Law, in its entirety from birth (an utter impossibility, of course), or someone incapable of understanding right from wrong (unborn, infants and very small children and some few mentally incapable folks).
What you seem to be teaching is utterly at odds with God’s word and could only be described as the work of the very real evil one. Please become acquainted with the Bible and see the truth before it becomes too late for you or someone you tell this stuff to.
I say this to you as a sinner saved by Grace to one who might soon, hopefully, be a brother or sister in Christ.