[Wyrd bið ful aræd]

As a young feller (who as a rule does not date due to the plethora of other things to do before getting ketched), in my opinion there is too big an emphasis on being "cool."

As the author notes, nobody wants to explicitly admit interest or do anything "romantic," for fear of being labeled clingy, desperate, presuming, or just plain dorky. Generally, whenever you see two people just having a nice time together without awkwardly remaining "super chill," you can generally assume they are Christians.

Also the overarching emphasis on sex. That gets old too.

[Slyfox]

in my opinion there is too big an emphasis on being "cool."

I was 45 when I realized that I was never going to be "cool."