That is a very worthwhile reminder. In my occasional, painful discussions with queers about rights, my fav question is, “What Constitutional rights do I have that you don’t have?” After they sputter and stumble around from a minute, I say, “Then quit you’re bitching. There’s nothing special about me and there’s nothing special about you.”
Seems to me that the only inequalities are those created by government when they tied things like tax policy and social security to marriage.
Obamacare is doing more of the exact same thing.