But the man that takes her up on it, while under the influence, is definitely still a rapist.
if they are both drunk and both ‘consent’ there is no rape. they are both intoxicated, there’s no way you can say one party is always guilty of’something just because of their gender.
if males and females act like drunk sluts, if one feels stupid and ashamed the next morning that doesn’t mean she gets to cry rape to try and salvage her reputation.