Amen to that.
Plus, it is a proven fact that a guys brain goes numb once enough blood flows into his penis to get a full erection.
Those of us who have been there, done that, and made love thousands of times in our lifetimes can actually tell you that the sexual turn-on switch operates as a direct and opposite reaction to the brain shutdown switch. If you don't believe me, just try to solve even a moderately complicated math problem the next time you have intercourse.
There does not seem to be a similar dynamic in women. Or, if there is, the brain shutdown switch is far less pronounced. Again, if you don't believe me, just arrange for the smallest distraction such as a muffled alarm clock, to go off the next time you make love with your wife or girlfriend (hopefully, the same person). You won't even hear it. She will react instantly.
This isn't sexist, it is just fact. A guy capable of rational thinking while having sex would never have sex.
i find i can easily be distracted, that isn’t a universal law. a wrong scent/odor will do it.
if you are still in the romance part of relationships - which one night stands would fall into - and things are new - if you both are doing things right, neither side is gonna be able to do a math problem. or want to.
if you’re talking about a seasoned relationship, one or both could be distracted by stuff.