Unless it pertains to your ailment, when you go to your doctor, just decline to answer any questions about your sex life. If the doctor has to ask “by law,” it doesn’t mean you have to play the game. Then all the physician has to do is document that the question was asked and patient “declined to answer.” Loop closed. Right? Knowing Soetoro and the evil Sebelius, they will find a way to punish the patient for not answering.
I'm sure that there will be consequences if the "wards of the state" refuse to cooperate.