Merely pointing out that there exists the real possibility that SAD is mentioned in any INS docs as the "mom", after she became an adoptive parent. In other words, she could be a legal "mom", but not the birth mother.
REMEMBER THIS>>
In 1982, when the Goeldner family visited the Dunhams in Hawaii, the Dunhams told Virginia Goeldner that they were looking after the boy because HIS MOTHER DIED IN 1970.