[DBeers]

No, not really. I mean, it used to be "normal" for Catholics to force Protestants to convert at sword point, and on failing to do so, burning them alive at the stake for heresy. I wouldn't call that not self-destructive. But it was certainly for the time.

YES REALLY -you stated as much yourself: "Normal" is just the mean and median of the data points, graphed along a bell curve." Normal people do not express love by engaging in self destructive intrinsically disordered activity...

[longtermmemmory]

there is no love test for marriage.

in fact no law has a “love test” (or orgasm test, or happiness test, or god test, or sexual activity test)

this propaganda stunt of ANY two (group?) wanting to live in a “loving committed relationship” is just a fiction created for the weak minded judge.

Believing in a “born gay” gene is akin to the easter bunny or tooth fairy.