At 20, boys today could be more responsible. But assuredly, by the time you are 24 or 25, you need to have that full time job and stop sponging off of the parents or the government.
I was paying rent to the Parents the moment I turned 18 LOL
Do you have any idea the crushing depression caused by the current atmosphere, plus not feeling like you have enough experience, or any skills to put on paper, nor having a piece of paper saying you paid people to educate you for four years? The media, women, and the government are all telling me I'm useless because I'm a white male, I have an employment agency that gets me a job once every 8 months or so, I have endocrine diseases that have been destroying me in more ways than one since I was 15, and for a huge majority of jobs I apply for online, I don't get a call asking me a good time to come in for an interview.
Also, not everybody has a good base built for them when they're young, so that's another thing holding people back. At least if I had that, I'd be much better off right now.
Do I want a pity party? No. Do I want you to boo hoo me? No. I just want you to understand that sometimes the circumstances in one's life leads to greater odds of having a difficult time getting life going.