Bull. First, she fails to do her job properly of ensuring client privacy, then she kills herself to save the embarrassment. By blaming others for her personal failure, you are justifying her suicide.
Nobody alive on this planet can tell with certainty what were the true reasons for the suicide.
By blaming others for her personal failure [...]
If a prankster tricks you to enter a cage with hungry lions, will you be content to blame yourself for being unable to fend them off? Maybe it's your fault that you don't carry bear spray on a daily basis?
If another prankster calls you pretending to be a doctor and says that your only child had a car accident and died a moment ago, will you blame yourself for the heart attack that follows?
If yet another prankster SWATs your house and the police shoots you, will you blame yourself for ... for what?
There are certain things that sane, moral people just don't do. This was a mean prank.