That tired old saw from the dead souls is so glaring: "If I’m not the father than it’s none of my business unless she asks me for advice." ... Well then, we could save lots of money being spent on maintaining a police force everywhere, because if 'she decides to murder her dependent children, well, since you're not the father of those alive children (and the little ones in the womb are alive human beings dependent upon their mother) then it's none of your business and we presume none of society's business.
America is either for protecting the very young or it is not. You are not, so drop the charades don'tchaknow.