1) Stockpile food
2) Buy a rifle, a handgun, and a minimum of 2K round for each
3) Time is a resource; use it to become politically active within your community, and then grow that movement across your state.
In addition to 1-3, is the following.
Network with the sane (conservative) members of your extended family for support, both financial and otherwise. Minimize communication with the Obamabots, who are potential informants. Our family in eastern Europe has been through this. And then leave them to depend on the government. Some have to learn the hard way.
Remember what Jesus said about family. He didn’t come to bring peace, but division.