Has anyone ever seen a more desperate and immature campaign?
I hope the Kenyan takes every liberal down with him. Just when you think Obama can’t make a bigger fool out of himself, he goes and does it. We call them libtards for a reason.
How the narcissist is born
If a child was abused at childhood or neglected in such a way that made him ashamed of who he is then he will try to cope with that shame in the best available way. Some people will become socially withdrawn while others will chose the other defense mechanism which is becoming narcissists.
A narcissist will start exaggerating his own importance and would stop listening to anyone who tries to point out his flaws.
That’s why ignoring a narcissist hurts him so much. Its because the act of ignoring him is seen as an attempt to devalue his exaggerated worth!
In the Solid Self confidence program I said that the narcissist feels ashamed of being himself and because of that he tries to cover his flaws by outperforming everyone else around him, his logic at this point is something like: If i am superior then no one will dare to point out my flaws.
How the narcissist deals with those who ignore him
The narcissist will devalue those who don’t agree with him or those who point out his flaws. When being ignored he will do one of two things:
1) Label the person who ignored him as inferior and thus give himself a reason not to think about the rejection
2) If that person who rejected him appeared too worthy to be considered inferior then the narcissist will then do his best to take revenge. Its so common that a narcissist treats you badly just to show you that you are not important to him.
http://www.2knowmyself.com/do_narcissists_hate_being_ignored