So, when your daughter sneaks out to meet her girlfriend, and you don’t change the locks on the doors, then....... (sound of ominous drum beats ~ boom boom boom boom boom boom ~ echoes )
Not sure what you are suggesting. Loud knocking or shotgun blasts?
Having successfully raised a daughter who is now an adult, married and expecting her first child I have been told by her that there was tremendous FREEDOM in the bounds set for her. (Our culture for the most part no longer understands this). There was never any sneaking out to meet her girlfriend. We operate under the Biblical doctrine that "bad company corrupts good morals (1 Corintians 15:33). We associate with other homeschooling/christian families who have the same goals for character development.
Back when we lived on a street with many young people who attended gov't schools, it became readily apparent to her that these "products of modern social engineerning" were behaviorally limited and could not easily function in a mixed-aged/mature environment. Nor were they "kind", but jealous, vindictive and petty. She preferred her many friends from the homeschooling community, church, youth in government, Bardin Music Studio, Mozart, We Make History (Historical Balls/Dances), various scholastic organizations, Network of Enlightened Women (NEW), Navigators and others.
I could rave about her many accomplishments. Sneaking out to be with her girlfiend(s) was not one of them.