If you had wanted to do something FOR your son (he is not your little buddy), you would teach him to be a man with a good, strong example. Instead of choosing to be a real role model and shape the life of a little man, you chose to be a cartoon character and make sure he had some very big hurdles to overcome later in life. The dad, and I use that term very loosely, should be locked up for child abuse.
Right, he has totally missed the point. He is supposed to be setting limits, not going along with every whim this kid has. What if the kid wanted to dress as Hitler? I don’t think the boy needs to be humiliated over the dresses , jut gently guided away from them by a strong, caring Dad, which he obviously doesn’t have.