why do they feel they have to share their sex life with the world? Its politics first and sex second
Because like many minority groups they were actually discriminated upon and abused. The problems is, those days are long gone, but they still use history to take advantage and get special treatment.
The US has moved past all that, but they don't want to because they get "stuff". They have been taught in public schools that they are "owed", even for grievances they never experienced. Such is the state of "perpetual victimhood".