[philman_36]

But his true mother and her extended family in the US...

You seem to be saying this with some certainty.
Do tell! Who, in your opinion, is his true mother?

[Fantasywriter]

Beware, Philman, there is an ever expanding cult built around the teachings of one Martha Trowbridge. Abandon facts, logic, common sense, and above all common courtesy, all who subscribe to it. All who dare question it, no matter how reasonable the questions, prepare to be smeared, insulted and worse.

I only offer you this heads up, Phil, because I really like you. Take it fwiw.

[WildHighlander57]

Philman_36,

clues in post #297 are that the “true mother” ‘s extended family are big supporters of 0.

David,
Can you send some leads; PM if you don’t want them going down the rabbit hole...