[JRandomFreeper]

I asked the question. It's easy to read.

Question is, was I right to run off to the western states for a couple of years so she could find someone to marry (that wasn't me).

/johnny

[Travis McGee]

I’m sorry, I don’t know you, don’t know her, don’t know either of your situations, and don’t know if you’re pulling my leg, but I don’t see a question there I can possibly answer.

[PapaBear3625]

Question is, was I right to run off to the western states for a couple of years so she could find someone to marry (that wasn't me).

I don't see the rationale behind the decision to "run off to the western states". My attitude is, if the woman makes me happy, she could be a Martian with purple tendrils sprouting from her head.