Lilliana soon after birth
Posted on 06/01/2012 4:35:43 PM PDT by wagglebee
As the executive director of the Euthanasia Prevention Coalition I have had the opportunity to read stories of despair and other stories of hope.
The story that I am writing about today is one of the greatest stories of hope. This is the story of Lilliana Dennis, a child who is living with Trisomy 18, a rare genetic condition that many doctors have labelled as "incompatible with life."
This is a story of a child who was not supposed to live. A child who has a condition that most doctors would refuse to provide treatment for and let to die, based on "futile care" theory. A story of a child, who in the Netherlands, may have been euthanized based on the guidelines of the Groningen Protocol, because she would be viewed as a "life unworthy of life."
This is a story of a child who is not only living but who is thriving and showing the world that the lives of children with Trisomy 18 are worthy of life, worthy of care and worthy of medical treatment.
On May 23, an article entitled: Hearts full of hope: Surgery extends the life of infant with rare condition was written by Ryan Trares and published in the Daily Journal in Franklin Indiana. This article told the story of Lilliana. Here is the text of the article:
Youtube video from Lilliana's first birthday.
Lilliana soon after birth
The odds seemed impossible to comprehend.
Russell and Rhonda Dennis had just learned their newborn daughter, Lilliana, suffered from Trisomy 18. The genetic disorder would stymie her physical and mental development. Fewer than half of babies with the disorder survive their first week. Only about 8 percent live an entire year.
All you can do is take her home and love her while you can, doctors said.
That was about one year ago. The Dennis family never thought that Lilliana would celebrate her first birthday, but after open-heart surgery and regular therapy, she is thriving.
Her parents want to hold her up as an example that though the condition can be traumatic, it’s not an automatic death sentence.
Lilliana's first birthday
“She’s proven she can live, she can learn,” said Rhonda Dennis, her mother. “She still might not live much longer, but we’ve come to terms with all of the things that the Lord has laid out. He’s in control, and bad things may come, but that’s part of his plan.”
In their southside Indianapolis home, the Dennis family have created a system to help protect Lilliana.
A monitor measures the amount of air she is getting in her lungs, warning the family if she has trouble breathing. Tanks of oxygen are on standby, as are medications to open her airways, in case the little girl struggles.
A gastric feeding tube was implanted in her stomach in April, since she has not developed the ability to eat by mouth. She gets much of her nutrition pumped into her body during the night, then feeds three times during the day to ensure she gets the proper nutrition.
The Dennises have four other children, and none of them have Trisomy 18. Even while Rhonda Dennis was pregnant with Lilliana, she experienced no complications or warnings that their new child would have so many problems.
Lilliana was born May 17, 2011, at Community South Hospital. She was three weeks early and weighed only 4 pounds, 7 ounces. Her small weight was the first sign that something may be wrong. More concrete signs, such as her clenched fingers that never seemed to straighten and feet that curled like rockers, made doctors order a genetic test.
The results showed she had Trisomy 18. The condition, also called Edward’s syndrome, is similar to other genetic disorders such as Downs syndrome. When Lilliana was conceived, she had an extra chromosome, which caused her to develop a heart defect, poorly developed fingers and toes, and blockages that stunted her breathing.
In Lilliana’s case, the immediate danger was the stress on her respiratory system. The hole in her heart prevented oxygen-rich blood from properly circulating through the body. The struggle for oxygen puts undue stress on the rest of the body, and eventually they die. Little research has been done on Trisomy 18, due to the incredibly high death rate. Estimations are that almost 99 percent of babies with the condition are never even born. For those that are, odds are about 50 percent that they survive their first week.
Such a large percentage of the children born with the disease die quickly, and doctors have little opportunity to study the physical effects, said Dr. Sanjay Parikh, Lilliana’s cardiologist at Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital in Indianapolis.
From the start, the family turned to their faith to cope. Russell, president of Heritage Bible College in Franklin, and Rhonda Dennis turned to a specific Bible verse for guidance — Romans 15:13. The verse reads, “Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost.”
That message became their rallying cry.
“When you’re told these things up front, you just think it’s God’s plan. I really didn’t think she would live. I thought that she would live a short time, and we’d just show everyone we still trusted God,” Rhonda Dennis said.
They also started researching the problem on their own. Online support groups, as well as national organizations such as the Trisomy 18 Foundation, helped fill in the blanks beyond what their doctors had told them.
The information was frightening, as it revealed how deadly the condition can be. But it also offered hope. They read about children who were attending school and had learned to walk. One woman lived to be 41 and graduated from college.
“The doctors tell you this condition is incompatible with life, that it’s fatal, and that all of these things will more than likely go wrong,” Rhonda Dennis said. “But then you meet these people and see these kids doing stuff, interacting, walking and talking.”
Initially, Lilliana’s doctors told them it was too late for surgery and there was nothing they could do. But the Dennises wanted a second opinion. Working with friends in Ohio, the little girl’s heart scans and images were hand delivered to a doctor based in Toledo, Ohio, who specialized in Trisomy 18 cases.
The family also went to see Parikh. He examined her heart images and immediately said that he could do the surgery.
But he had a catch. Parikh couldn’t guarantee that he could assemble a surgical team that would agree to do it. Because the life expectancy of any baby with Trisomy 18 is so short, and surgery doesn’t guarantee a greatly extended life, many health officials feel that any surgery or procedure is cruel.
“The prejudice is such that, these babies don’t live long enough, so why put them through the pain and stress of surgery if it isn’t going to make that great of a difference,” Russell Dennis said.
The Dennises also had to plead their case in front of the hospital’s ethics board, which must give the approval on risky or controversial procedures. The board was split, and unanimous approval was needed to do the surgery. One of the main opponents of doing it asked the family how this operation would affect Lilliana’s quality of life.
“My thinking was, if she gets the surgery, she lives. If she doesn’t, she dies. It was that simple,” Russell Dennis said.
But it was Rhonda Dennis who spoke. She looked at the physician and simply asked, “What if it was your daughter?” After deliberating behind closed doors, the committee emerged and gave their approval for the surgery.
Other parents who had gone through Trisomy 18, as well as their own research, told the Dennis family they had a six-week window to repair the hole in her ventricle which would relieve the stress.
Parikh and his team gathered on Oct. 13 to perform the open-heart surgery, a first for a baby with Trisomy 18. The operation was long, complicated by Lilliana’s small size and her breathing problems. But by the next day, she was stable and recovering in the hospital.
After 17 days of recovery, Lilliana came home with her parents. The change in her health since that time has been noticeable.
Though they take precautions with an oxygen monitor and medications, Lilliana’s breathing has become stronger and more regular. The next challenge is teaching Lilliana’s body to work the way a small child’s should. Rhonda Dennis is working with her to learn to feed by mouth. She has an oral stimulator that allows her to coat Lilliana’s gums and inner cheeks with baby food, most of which the girl spits up.
Lilliana also sees a physical therapist six times each month. The sessions are designed to help with basic muscle tone, such as lifting her arms and legs, and moving her head. She still can’t lift her head up much when laying on her stomach, but has started actively moving her lower body around.
“She has great hip action. She can scoot all over the floor,” Rhonda Dennis said.
To celebrate Lilliana’s first birthday, the Dennises had a celebration open house. She received her own birthday cake, and gifts from family and friends. After 12 months of fear and concern for their daughter, Russell and Rhonda Dennis are grateful to focus on the positive.
They understand that Lilliana will likely struggle for the rest of her life, and they’ve accepted that. Their goal now is to give their daughter the best life she can have while she’s alive, and to reach out to other parents to help them with the myriad decisions that come with Trisomy 18.
“If the parents don’t know what to push for and what to demand, a lot of times they won’t get it,” Rhonda Dennis said. “There are statistics that show that many of these children don’t live long. But you don’t know that for sure.”
And these miracles will disappear if Obama has his way.
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May the Good Lord continue to bless and help these wonderful
folks.
May the Good Lord continue to bless and help these wonderful
folks.
“Father, I ask for healing and your grace in the lives of these people and their children, in Jesus name, amen.”
What a wonderful uplifting story - pray that she continues to grow and thrive.
You show them Lilliana !
Isn't this what medicine is all about?
What a darling little girl. Every baby is completely helpless and will die without constant care from his parents. A child with a genetic or other handicap just needs more intense care.
My Kathleen inches around the floors on her back, too. Why roll over when that just puts your nose on the carpet?
My child had choroid plexus cysts when in the womb and we were told that it was an indicator for this. We were also told that many women have abortions because of the presence of the cysts but that the cysts often disappear. One women we were told had been pregnant multiple times and each time chose abortion. Finally, the last time cysts were detected and the woman chose life and the baby was fine. Sad when you consider how many women probably choose abortion even when the baby is fine.
I should add, the doctor also said our daughter would have a long narrow face. You guessed it-her face is short and round.
That’s nothing. The real horror is disomy X syndrome.
Google didn't have any results for the term "disomy X syndrome." "Fragile X syndrome" pulls up, and "uniparental disomy."
But anyway, what is your point? Is it that it is okay to kill children with a genetic disorder that is a "real horror"? Or if not, why would you even mention whatever it is that you meant?
hahaha
think a little harder
what does “disomy X” mean?
Oh, now I get it. I was thinking “pro-death” when I should have been thinking “misogyny,” although the result in terms of the thread’s topic is about the same.
Abortion because of misogyny is overwhelmingly common already, doesn’t even raise a yawn among our U.S. Senators.
However, one must realize you yourself are suffering from disomy x syndrome so your arguments are questionable.
Thank you for posting this. Another example of why killing babies is never the right solution.
This child is a miracle and is beautiful. That being said, some people would argue that since we as a society are now sharing the costs of health care it is irresponsible to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars keeping a child like this alive. They cannot hope to achieve a reasonable quality of life and will almost certainly die before the age of 5. Is it selfish for the parents to want to keep the child alive with aggressive therapies (gastric tube feeding, constant airway monitoring ect.) Perhaps it is more humane to let the child pass with less aggressive intervention. This is not an easy question to answer.
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