[markomalley]

1. What ever you do, don't cry (over spilled milk)
2. If it was my car, I'd hit the upholstery with the steam cleaner I use for my carpets inside.
3. In conjunction with 1 and 2 above, there is a product called Odo-Ban (you can get it at Home Depot). Spray it on the stain after you've gotten rid of as much of the source as possible. No guarantees, but I have seen it neutralize some pretty amazing odors in the past.

[LearnsFromMistakes]

Probably similar to ODO-BAN, but ‘Lethal’ makes products for hunters to kill odors:

http://www.lethalproducts.com/lethal-line.php

my wife has used it around the house and it can be amazing at times...smells just disappear...