Sounds like your daughter is a GRITS (Girls Raised in the South).
Yes, she is! Like any well-brought-up young Southern lady, she is sweet, pretty, charming, and terrifyingly tough. And she is more conservative than Ann Coulter, bless her. Do not cross her. In a bad situation she has a mouth on her that can make a Marine drill sergeant back away in reverent horror. I could tell you stories...