Rules!
My girlfriends and I spent alot of summers on the beach with our kids. For the first year or two I covered myself fully as my body took a hit from childbirth. After awhile though I realized “who was i trying to impress? I was surrounded by toddlers and other chubby ladies and we enjoyed getting tans while we played with out children and what did i care if someone thought my belly too big or my ass too wide?” so i bought a two piece and got a great tan! Modesty is over rated. being ashamed of your body isn’t healthy or godly.