Common Behaviours of a Narcissist ‘Me versus You’ mentality; Competitiveness; ‘Tit for tat’ retaliations; Striving for the ‘spotlight’ and attention; Excessive generosity to outside people; Uncomfortable when others are incurring attention or praise; If can’t be centre of attention will either discredit or leave the experience; May fake illnesses or problems to procure attention / sympathy; Abusive verbal behaviour when angered or insecure; Tendency toward violent and even criminal behaviour; Inappropriate and inapplicable language in front of women and children; Dark moods that affect others; False promises; Glorifies and falsifies achievements past and present; Expects to be recognised and praised; Finds others not complying with wants intolerable; Extreme sensitivity to criticism; Extreme defensiveness when confronted; Pathological lying; Disdain for rules, regulations, decency and morality; Childish outbursts and behaviour; Very little consideration for how behaviour affects others; Extreme lack of compassion or sensitivity towards love partners (and others’) problems; Grossly unsupportive to familiars in times of need; Brushes incidences under the carpet; Uses allies real or imagined to back up claims and arguments; Uses guilt and manipulation to influence love partners; Doesn’t trust love partners; Tendency towards unreasonable jealousy and possessiveness; Capable of sexually degrading name calling; Can steal, harm or hide property to sabotage love partners; Uses vengeance, threats and intimidation to control ; Uses excessive charm and manipulation to control; Little (if any) sense of conscience; Discredits love partners to gain attention / sympathy from others; Will ‘attack’ when confronted or questioned; Emotionally punishes love partners when feeling insecure; Emotionally punishes love partners when they are struggling with issues, losses, grief or challenges; Employs unpredictable and unaccountable behaviour; Capable of ‘disgusting’ behaviour to gain the upper hand and control a situation; Feels powerful and fulfilled when creating powerlessness in another; Gross failure to apologise or have sympathy after creating tears, distress or trauma to the love partner.