Marriage hasn’t been redefined. Gay Marriage is not the same thing as marriage. They can give any legal status they want to to gay marriage but it isn’t and will never be marriage.
Furthermore, sodomy is still a crime even though corrupt politicians have declared no penalty for the act. If tomorrow New York declared murder will no longer be punished it would still be murder.
True – it isn’t really marriage but the law is the law. Under this law, kids suffer.