You want to clarify your meaning, just what are you saying? DADT is a good thing? What?
My meaning is that civilians run the military. It’s not the military’s job to question the government’s orders unless they are unconstitutional. It’s the military’s job to execute to the best of their ability.
Elections have consequences. Congress has ordered the military to train and be ready to repeal DADT, and that’s exactly what they’re going to do. Anything else would be against the spirit of the constitution.