BTW, I had a friend who taught K-garten years ago who had a 5-year old boy in her class who would try to slip in from the playground to dress in the women's "dress-up" play area. When asked "What do you want to be when you grow up."...he answered, "A girl."
His father was a big, ignorant oaf who the teachers were afraid would kill the kid when he got older and the father figured out what was going on with the kid.
I have no proof but I think the kid was born "that way."
So you think the kid was born that way but do not know. Maybe the kid had been molested but you do not know. Maybe the kid had some other trauma happen to him but you do not know.
I have known some kids in my lifetime who were molested or suffered other trauma due to behavior by adults around them and strangely enough they acted out in similiar ways to the story you tell.
But I guess in your mind we should all agree with you and say it is a natural born trait? Yet you call me self-righteous?
Parents who automatically decide to promote and celebrate behavior like this in a child are irresponsible and insane. We are in a war (cultural war) whereas kids are under attack all of the time in our society. Your belief that it is natural and a born trait does not bear out to the facts.