Just trying to pin point things regarding the Nachmanoff’s party other than lots of booze. I “assuming” it was Arnie who took the pictures since he’s not in them. The order is correct. The first picture would be everyone visiting. Second picture is after Arnie tells them he’s taking pictures and for them to turn around and smile at the camera. He also instructs Ichiro and Kunio (both from Japan) and American Anne to come join the group. The bottle in front of Anne is removed from the table so the camera can see her.
Now, we don’t know if “American Anne” sat down beside Sr. because they were on a date or simply because that was the easiest spot to sit down in similar to how the Japanese guys sat in the front as well.
However, “American Anne” does look like that gal standing beside Sr. in the going away picture with all the leis.
Opinions are divided on that, about 50/50 - it's hard to say due to the poor quality of the Nachmannof images.