[Fred Nerks]

...Have first hand experience with the problem and the above scenario certainly fits the pattern of an abusive relationship.

Yes, but who was he abusive to? Only one person on earth says they saw Stanley Ann Dunham and that's Neil Abercrombie.

[hoosiermama]

IF she did indeed go with him to Kenya to have the baby, the entire family (because of tribal custom) may have been part of the we'll take and raise the baby scenario.

Physical abuse increases at the time of birth or shortly before. The baby is often used as a pawn to control the mother. Abuse is all about control.