I’ve heard of reports that lesbians are two or three times more likely to be abused in homosexual relationship. and men are about four times as likely to be abused by their “partner” What I have seen from my son and his several “committed relationships “ is they don’t last very long and they do involve a lot of promiscuity—and a lot more verbal abuse-and threats of violence than I would every put up with form my wife.And I do not believe the LIE of “consensual”sex.NOBODY I ever knew woke up one day and said they felt like having some stranger shove things up their exit.
Lots of people like some really weird sexual things so I wouldn’t guess on the enjoyability of anal sex.
However since childhood abuse is a contributing factor to adult depression & lots of other mental illnesses; It is also a huge factor that the abuse behavior modeled for the child will create an abusive adult.
So is it surprising that Gay relationships struggle with domestic abuse and violence?
In my opinion there are lots of different reasons for people to be Gay, some more legitimate than others.