Most likely, the post office realized there was no Honolulu in Connecticut, and so redirected the letter to Hawaii.
If the post office was too dumb to make that deduction, and indeed sent it to the wrong address, Obama, after having not received it after a long wait, would have called the SSA and found out they sent it to the wrong address, and then gave them the correct address.
You drink, don't you? Let's start with the part I put in bold text. According to your theory, it was a government clerk who made the original typo assigning a CT SSN to someone (allegedly) from HI. Now, it's possible for a government worker to not figure out that a letter is addressed to Honolulu, CT. Do you know how much mail the SSA handles in a daily basis??
I have to confess, my FRiend, you're on some great drugs. C'n I get some of that???