Based upon your description of yourself, your family, and what you want, it isn’t even a close call. Tarpon Springs. And, as another poster noted, there are a number of other nearby communities in northern Pinellas County in which you could reside and still be close enough to Tarpon Springs to enjoy what it has to offer you.
Thank you. Yes, it sounds like Pinellas/Pasco county are the places to check out for sure. I am going to schedule a trip down there soon and check the area out. Also, hit the TS church on the wkd to sound out some folks as well.