The feminists made common cause with the homosexuals, and then it was "game over". We had some o.k. female ministers (I felt just like you do) but then we started getting the lesbians.
Bishop Allen was pretty steady but the new bishop (Alexander) threw in his lot whole-heartedly with the homosexuals.
The 'aha!' moment for us was when the new rector said that anybody who disagreed with him on the ordination of Robinson or 'gay marriage' was not only wrong -- they were evil.
Right then was when our search started.
That would be the moment for me also, but we’re not there or even close to there in my church.
Glad you found a church home!