I just found out he is defrauding the unemployment office too, he had a job for two weeks and is not going to tell them about it. He was cut off at the beginning of June after being unemployed since last October. He "miraculously" found a job that same week and then when more benefits became available Aug 1st, he left that job and applied for benefits again. He thinks the Judge in divorce court is going to feel sorry for him because he is on unemployment and he won't have to pay anything.
Meanwhile, I am stuck with all of his bills and am trying to finance the mortgage in my own name. I just had my hip replaced in June, when he left me and moved in with her the day after I got home. However, I had disability insurance through my job, which I have held for 24 years. He says that I should not drag her butt into court on adultery charges because "she is disabled and living in HUD housing"...freaking boo-hoo, too bad.
I don't qualify for any assistance nor would I take any, I am even going to have to dip into my 401(k) for the down payment on the house. Arrrrrrggggghhhh! I despise these parasites!
Disclaimer: Not all Section 8/HUD users are parasites, but there sure are more of them than the honest folks!
Getting rid of that bum was a good thing. What a low life. Now you go find yourself a nice hard working Christian man and live happily ever after. I thank God everyday that my sorry ex husband split on me because I married the greatest guy in the world who is successful and a better father and provider to my kid than her real father.
Sometimes we never know how God works, but have faith because He has something better in store for you.