Upon further review of the Immigration Documents, I don’t think it was likely they went to Indonesia in 1965, in fact Lolo was supposed to leave on June 20,1965 and somehow got that extended to June 20, 1966 when he left. If he left in 1965 he would not be able to get back in.
The July 7, 1965 Robert Wooster memo discloses that after Lolo married Ann, Lolo on his own went and got his visa extended to June 20, 1966. This seemed to really piss off the people running the exchange student program at the university, as it appears Lolo did an end run around them to get this.
However, with this extension in hand, Lolo was free to come and go between Indonesia and Hawaii if he wished as far as the US was concerned. However, if he wanted to stay in the US beyond June 20, 1966, he would need a waiver.
So Lolo was free to take his new bride Ann and little Barry back to Indonesia to meet his family in late July or August 1965 if he wished.
Whether they ended up in fact going, we can’t say.
In particular, see the July 13, 1965 letter from Zumwinkle disclosing that the East-West Center received a cable from the Indonesian Embassy ordering Lolo to terminate his studies and return to Indonesia.
So maybe they had planned to go and Ann even got a passport in anticipation of going, but then when he was ordered home they didn’t go, for fear that Indonesia would not let him go back to Hawaii.
Are we saying the same thing?